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Burial & Cremation Options

We offer a full range of options for both burial and cremation. In fact, many families are surprised at the variety of options available, especially when selecting cremation.

Burial/Entombment
The option of burial is available whether your family currently owns a plot or wishes to purchase a new grave(s). Most cemeteries in this area have graves available for purchase. In fact, a recent study has determined that in North America, based on current cemeteries on operation, there is enough burial land to last the next 25 years.

A limited number of cemeteries also offer entombment. As an alternative to burial in ground, the casket is place in a wall above ground. These buildings, often referred to as mausoleums, will vary greatly in size and style depending on their location. It should be noted that this method of disposition is more expensive than burial. In this immediate area, Innisvale Cemetery & Crematorium in Thornton is the only location offering entombment.

Located in Innisfil, there are several cemeteries; St. Paul's Anglican, St. James United, Innisvale Cemetery & Crematorium and Sixth Line to name a few.

We maintain a list of most local cemeteries and the contact person(s) who can assist families interested in purchasing a plot. It should be noted that these cemeteries may have policies in place that limit burials to families with immediate connections to the community. As these smaller cemeteries approach capacity, guidelines have been implemented to ensure that locals have access to plots. Although we do not sell plots, feel free to contact our office and we will assist you in finding the name and phone number of the cemetery contact person(s).

Burial outside of the local area is also a service available to families. We can arrange for burials within Ontario, Canada and worldwide. Specific requests can be addressed by contacting our office.


Cremation
Points of Interest
Currently in Ontario, provincial legislation stipulates that a funeral home can not have a crematorium on-site. The crematorium must be a separate entity from the funeral home. In addition, the owner of a funeral establishment is not permitted to have controlling ownership in a cemetery or crematorium. Most crematoriums are located on cemetery property.

In Ontario some cemeteries and/or crematoriums have establishments on-site that allow for visitation. It should be understood that these facilities are not funeral homes but rather "visitation centres". Visitation centres are very limited to the types of services they may provide. For example, they are not licenced to provide embalming or to arrange funerals with families. Families are not obligated to deal with one particular funeral home should they wish to use a Visitation Centre; that choice is the families. There are no Visitation Centres located within Innisfil or the immediate area.

Understanding Cremation
Cremation is a dignified alternative to burial that is often accompanied by misunderstanding. This section is intended to ensure that the concept of cremation is truly understood. Here are some important points about cremation:

1) An open casket visitation CAN take place prior to cremation just as with burial.

2) Embalming IS an option even with cremation.

3) If a casket is purchased for cremation, the entire casket is cremated with the body. If a family wishes to have cremation follow the visitation and/or service but do not feel comfortable cremating the casket, we have 2 rental options available. Our rental casket system consists of a specially designed casket shell that houses a cremation container. The exterior looks like a regular casket but has an insert that is removed and cremated with the body. A new insert is placed in the shell after each use. The pillow and cloth interior are attached to this insert and are replaced after each use. The caskets that are available to be rented are clearly identified to families and a Rental Casket Agreement is signed by the family to ensure they fully understand the concept of a "rental casket. The rental casket option is not available for burial.

4) Cremation is not always less costly than burial. A small minority of families who select cremation will choose not to have visitation or a service. In this situation cremation would be less than burial. Cremation however, can be more costly than burial depending on how the family wishes to deal with the cremated remains.

Example:
Family "A" has selected a casket and is requesting a full traditional funeral with open casket visitation from 2-4 & 7-9 p.m. The funeral will follow the next day in the funeral home chapel. The family already owns an empty grave at the local cemetery but can not decide between burial and cremation.

Option A: Full casket burial without cremation:
Currently the fee for the local cemetery to open and close the grave for a full casket burial is $520.00. The family has opted not to use a concrete burial container to protect the casket. The total charge by the cemetery required to complete the burial is $520.00.

Option B: Cremation with the burial of ashes in the same plot:
Cremations arranged through our funeral homes take place at Innisvale Cemetery & Crematorium. Their fee for cremation is $411.95. In addition to this fee, the Province of Ontario requires all cremations be approved by a Coroner prior to taking place. The fee for this approval is $75.00. In addition, the charge for the local cemetery to open and close the grave for the purpose of burying cremated remains is $165.00. In this situation, total cemetery fees amount to $651.95.

The other item that can factor the cost of cremation is the urn selection. Although not required by law, many families choose to place the ashes in a container other than the plastic box received from the crematorium. Urn prices can start below $100 and can go up to several thousand dollars.

5) Environmental concerns can often influence a family to select cremation rather than burial. There are rising concerns that the cremation process may be releasing high levels of pollutants into the environment. Although we have not seen any conclusive reports, the concern stems from the types of containers that are cremated. Pressboard, particle board or MDF constructed containers/caskets contain resins that may be harmful to the environment when burned. It is not uncommon for families selecting cremation to choose a more entry level casket. It is also common that these caskets are less money because they are manufactured from a combination of solid wood and solid wood alternatives (such as pressboard). Fortunately we are able to offer products that are less harmful to the environment when cremated. There have been discussions of monitoring the emissions from crematoriums. Should these studies produce evidence that cremation emissions are exceeding safe levels, future regulations may require crematoriums to add devices to reduce pollutants released to the environment. These devices can be very expensive and potentially could affect the price of cremation in the future. It is a subject that we do not yet have any concrete answers for but will be of great interest over the years to come.

These are just a few points to ponder. We are always available to discuss these or any other matters with you.

Options for Cremation
To follow up on our opening statement, here are some of the many service options available with cremation:

1) One or two days of open or closed casket visitation and the service to follow on the next day.

2) Open or closed casket visitation on the same day as the service.

3) Funeral service absent of the casket or body. Family may select to have the urn present for the service if they wish.

4) A gathering absent of the casket or body with no formal service. An informal gathering allows people to visit during a set period of time. Urn can be present for gathering if family wishes.

5) A service held only at the graveside on the day of the burial of ashes.

6) A service in the funeral home or church with the urn present, followed by a procession of vehicles to the final resting place of the cremated remains.

Families often inquire as to what options are available related to the disposition of cremated remains. Here are some of the common options available:

1) One of the most frequently asked questions that we are asked is "Can ashes be scattered?". We are not in a position to give legal advice on this topic. We are not aware of any law in Ontario that makes scattering of ashes illegal. What we do suggest is that families carefully consider ALL their options before commencing with scattering. Remember, once the ashes are scattered it is FINAL. Your decision can not be reversed. Other important factors to consider before scattering is the location and method of which this will take place.

Water
Water is a popular destination, however this should be carefully thought out. Scattering from the shore or a boat can become a problem if the wake is too strong. Parts of the cremated remains will float in the direction of the current. Avoid containers that will float or remain in tact for years to come. Consider that a swimmer or diver could locate ashes protected by a container. Urns are available from the funeral home made of materials that are designed to float for a short duration before settling to the bottom and naturally breaking down to the elements.

Land
Places like the family cottage can be a tranquil resting place for ashes. It is important to keep in mind that the location that you scatter the ashes becomes a spot that will be remembered for years to come; sort of like a private cemetery. Do you want a "cemetery" in an area that you frequently relate to recreational fun or that special place of peacefulness and solitude? Before scattering on your property consider the fact that this land may not always belong to your family. As unlikely as it may seem at the time, one day your favorite family destination could be a commercial or residential development.

Public land, such as parks, are not suggested as an ideal location but are still selected by some families. This requires extra consideration and discretion; the last thing you would want to do is offend someone who might just happen to walk by during your "ceremony". If you must scatter on public property, select a time of day when less traveled and a location out of public view that will allow for the ashes to go unnoticed until they are able to disperse back to the elements.

2) Cemeteries are adapting to the increase in cremation. Many cemeteries are now offering columbarium niches (or niche walls) which are the structures that have either glass or stone fronts. The family purchase the rights to use one compartment which is normally capable of holding two containers or urns.

Ashes can also be buried in full size burial plots. Depending on the cemetery, they may allow as many as 4 to six containers of cremated remains in one single grave. People that own family plots that do not have room for full casket burials may still be allowed by the cemetery to bury ashes on top. Each cemetery will vary and they should be contacted for their rules and regulations. Permission will also be required by the legal owner of the plot before proceeding.

Select cemeteries have available cremation plots. The size of the plot is much smaller than a full size grave but normally have room for the burial of 2 urns.

On occasion, families have inquired about placing the cremated remains of one person into a casket with someone else.

Example: The husband died and was cremated according to his wishes. The ashes were kept at home by the family until the death of his wife. Her wishes were to be buried in a casket and not cremated. The family has requested that the ashes be placed in the casket so that they could be buried together.

This request can be accommodate providing the cemetery gives approval. We will always notify the cemetery of such a request. We respect the cemetery's rules and regulations and the importance that these arrangements be properly documented by the cemetery for historical reasons.

For families that want a dignified, but inexpensive method of dealing with the remains, some cemeteries offer "common ground burial". For a minimal fee, the cemetery accepts the ashes and buries or stores them in a section that is unmarked. Although the family would not know where they are located and are unable to place a monument, they can find comfort in knowing that the remains have been taken care of in a dignified manner. If the family changes their mind in the future, it may be possible to have the ashes retrieved for an additional fee. If you are considering common ground burial and feel that you may want the ashes back at a later date, check with the cemetery as to their retrieval policy.

In closing, remember one important thing; when you scatter ashes, you are in essence closing a chapter on someone's life forever. Unlike burial at a cemetery, there will be no record to indicate the final resting place of the ashes, no monument that stands throughout time to mark the site of burial and no archived record of what has transpired. Over the years we have seen a strong interest in genealogical research. Many people have successfully traced family roots with the assistance of cemetery records. When ashes are scattered, this record generally does not exist.

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