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We offer a full range
of options for both burial and cremation.
In fact, many families are surprised at
the variety of options available, especially
when selecting cremation.
Burial/Entombment
The option of burial is available whether your family currently owns a plot or wishes to purchase a new grave(s). Most cemeteries in this area have graves available for purchase. In fact, a recent study has determined that in North America, based on current cemeteries on operation, there is enough burial land to last the next 25 years.
A limited number of cemeteries also offer entombment. As an alternative to burial in ground, the casket is place in a wall above ground. These buildings, often referred to as mausoleums, will vary greatly in size and style depending on their location. It should be noted that this method of disposition is more expensive than burial. In this immediate area, Innisvale Cemetery & Crematorium in Thornton is the only location offering entombment.
Located in Innisfil, there
are several cemeteries; St. Paul's Anglican, St. James United, Innisvale Cemetery & Crematorium and Sixth Line to name a few.
We maintain a list of
most local cemeteries and the contact person(s)
who can assist families interested in purchasing
a plot. It should be noted that these cemeteries
may have policies in place that limit burials
to families with immediate connections to
the community. As these smaller cemeteries
approach capacity, guidelines have been
implemented to ensure that locals have access
to plots. Although we do not sell plots,
feel free to contact
our office and we will assist you in finding
the name and phone number of the cemetery
contact person(s).
Burial outside of the
local area is also a service available to
families. We can arrange for burials within
Ontario, Canada and worldwide. Specific
requests can be addressed by contacting
our office.
Cremation
Points
of Interest
Currently
in Ontario, provincial legislation stipulates
that a funeral home can not have a crematorium
on-site. The crematorium must be a separate
entity from the funeral home. In addition,
the owner of a funeral establishment is
not permitted to have controlling ownership
in a cemetery or crematorium. Most crematoriums
are located on cemetery property.
In Ontario some cemeteries
and/or crematoriums have establishments
on-site that allow for visitation. It should
be understood that these facilities are
not funeral homes but rather "visitation
centres". Visitation centres are very
limited to the types of services they may
provide. For example, they are not licenced
to provide embalming or to arrange funerals
with families. Families are not obligated
to deal with one particular funeral home
should they wish to use a Visitation Centre;
that choice is the families. There are no
Visitation Centres located within Innisfil
or the immediate area.
Understanding
Cremation
Cremation is a dignified
alternative to burial that is often accompanied
by misunderstanding. This section is intended
to ensure that the concept of cremation
is truly understood. Here are some important
points about cremation:
1)
An open casket visitation CAN take
place prior to cremation just as
with burial.
2)
Embalming IS an option even with
cremation.
3)
If a casket is purchased for cremation,
the entire casket is cremated with
the body. If a family wishes to
have cremation follow the visitation
and/or service but do not feel comfortable
cremating the casket, we have 2
rental options available. Our rental
casket system consists of a specially
designed casket shell that houses
a cremation container. The exterior
looks like a regular casket but
has an insert that is removed and
cremated with the body. A new insert
is placed in the shell after each
use. The pillow and cloth interior
are attached to this insert and
are replaced after each use. The
caskets that are available to be
rented are clearly identified to
families and a Rental Casket Agreement
is signed by the family to ensure
they fully understand the concept
of a "rental casket. The rental
casket option is not available
for burial.
4)
Cremation is not always less costly
than burial. A small minority of
families who select cremation will
choose not to have visitation or
a service. In this situation cremation
would be less than burial. Cremation
however, can be more costly than
burial depending on how the family
wishes to deal with the cremated
remains.
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Example:
Family "A" has selected
a casket and is requesting a
full traditional funeral with
open casket visitation from
2-4 & 7-9 p.m. The funeral
will follow the next day in
the funeral home chapel. The
family already owns an empty
grave at the local cemetery
but can not decide between burial
and cremation.
Option
A:
Full
casket burial without cremation:
Currently the fee for the local
cemetery to open and close the
grave for a full casket burial
is $520.00. The family has opted
not to use a concrete burial
container to protect the casket.
The total charge by the cemetery
required to complete the burial
is $520.00.
Option
B: Cremation
with the burial of ashes in
the same plot:
Cremations arranged through
our funeral homes take place
at Innisvale Cemetery &
Crematorium. Their fee for cremation
is $411.95. In addition to this
fee, the Province of Ontario
requires all cremations be approved
by a Coroner prior to taking
place. The fee for this approval
is $75.00. In addition, the
charge for the local cemetery
to open and close the grave
for the purpose of burying cremated
remains is $165.00. In this
situation, total cemetery fees
amount to $651.95.
The other item that can factor
the cost of cremation is the
urn selection. Although not
required by law, many families
choose to place the ashes in
a container other than the plastic
box received from the crematorium.
Urn prices can start below $100
and can go up to several thousand
dollars.
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5) Environmental concerns can often influence a family to select cremation rather than burial. There are rising concerns that the cremation process may be releasing high levels of pollutants into the environment. Although we have not seen any conclusive reports, the concern stems from the types of containers that are cremated. Pressboard, particle board or MDF constructed containers/caskets contain resins that may be harmful to the environment when burned. It is not uncommon for families selecting cremation to choose a more entry level casket. It is also common that these caskets are less money because they are manufactured from a combination of solid wood and solid wood alternatives (such as pressboard). Fortunately we are able to offer products that are less harmful to the environment when cremated. There have been discussions of monitoring the emissions from crematoriums. Should these studies produce evidence that cremation emissions are exceeding safe levels, future regulations may require crematoriums to add devices to reduce pollutants released to the environment. These devices can be very expensive and potentially could affect the price of cremation in the future. It is a subject that we do not yet have any concrete answers for but will be of great interest over the years to come.
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Options
for Cremation
To follow up on our
opening statement, here are some of the
many service options available with cremation:
1)
One or two days of open or closed
casket visitation and the service
to follow on the next day.
2)
Open or closed casket visitation
on the same day as the service.
3)
Funeral service absent of the casket
or body. Family may select to have
the urn present for the service
if they wish.
4)
A gathering absent of the casket
or body with no formal service.
An informal gathering allows people
to visit during a set period of
time. Urn can be present for gathering
if family wishes.
5)
A service held only at the graveside
on the day of the burial of ashes.
6)
A service in the funeral home or
church with the urn present, followed
by a procession of vehicles to the
final resting place of the cremated
remains.
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Families often inquire
as to what options are available related
to the disposition of cremated remains.
Here are some of the common options available:
1)
One of the most frequently asked
questions that we are asked is "Can
ashes be scattered?". We are
not in a position to give legal
advice on this topic. We are not
aware of any law in Ontario that
makes scattering of ashes illegal.
What we do suggest is that families
carefully consider ALL their options
before commencing with scattering.
Remember, once the ashes are scattered
it is FINAL. Your decision can not
be reversed. Other important factors
to consider before scattering is
the location and method of which
this will take place.
Water
Water is a popular destination, however this should be carefully thought out. Scattering from the shore or a boat can become a problem if the wake is too strong. Parts of the cremated remains will float in the direction of the current. Avoid containers that will float or remain in tact for years to come. Consider that a swimmer or diver could locate ashes protected by a container. Urns are available from the funeral home made of materials that are designed to float for a short duration before settling to the bottom and naturally breaking down to the elements.
Land
Places like the family cottage can
be a tranquil resting place for
ashes. It is important to keep in
mind that the location that you
scatter the ashes becomes a spot
that will be remembered for years
to come; sort of like a private
cemetery. Do you want a "cemetery"
in an area that you frequently relate
to recreational fun or that special
place of peacefulness and solitude?
Before scattering on your property
consider the fact that this land
may not always belong to your family.
As unlikely as it may seem at the
time, one day your favorite family
destination could be a commercial
or residential development.
Public land, such as parks, are not suggested as an ideal location but are still selected by some families. This requires extra consideration and discretion; the last thing you would want to do is offend someone who might just happen to walk by during your "ceremony". If you must scatter on public property, select a time of day when less traveled and a location out of public view that will allow for the ashes to go unnoticed until they are able to disperse back to the elements.
2)
Cemeteries are adapting to the increase
in cremation. Many cemeteries are
now offering columbarium niches
(or niche walls) which are the structures
that have either glass or stone
fronts. The family purchase the
rights to use one compartment which
is normally capable of holding two
containers or urns.
Ashes can also be buried in full size burial plots. Depending on the cemetery, they may allow as many as 4 to six containers of cremated remains in one single grave. People that own family plots that do not have room for full casket burials may still be allowed by the cemetery to bury ashes on top. Each cemetery will vary and they should be contacted for their rules and regulations. Permission will also be required by the legal owner of the plot before proceeding.
Select cemeteries have available cremation plots. The size of the plot is much smaller than a full size grave but normally have room for the burial of 2 urns.
On occasion, families
have inquired about placing the
cremated remains of one person into
a casket with someone else.
Example: The husband died and was cremated according to his wishes. The ashes were kept at home by the family until the death of his wife. Her wishes were to be buried in a casket and not cremated. The family has requested that the ashes be placed in the casket so that they could be buried together.
This request can
be accommodate providing the cemetery
gives approval. We will always notify
the cemetery of such a request.
We respect the cemetery's rules
and regulations and the importance
that these arrangements be properly
documented by the cemetery for historical
reasons.
For families that want a dignified, but inexpensive method of dealing with the remains, some cemeteries offer "common ground burial". For a minimal fee, the cemetery accepts the ashes and buries or stores them in a section that is unmarked. Although the family would not know where they are located and are unable to place a monument, they can find comfort in knowing that the remains have been taken care of in a dignified manner. If the family changes their mind in the future, it may be possible to have the ashes retrieved for an additional fee. If you are considering common ground burial and feel that you may want the ashes back at a later date, check with the cemetery as to their retrieval policy.
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In closing, remember one important thing; when you scatter ashes, you are in essence closing a chapter on someone's life forever. Unlike burial at a cemetery, there will be no record to indicate the final resting place of the ashes, no monument that stands throughout time to mark the site of burial and no archived record of what has transpired. Over the years we have seen a strong interest in genealogical research. Many people have successfully traced family roots with the assistance of cemetery records. When ashes are scattered, this record generally does not exist.
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